A UK-based Nigerian man has reportedly canceled his upcoming wedding after receiving a bride price list amounting to ₦3.5 million. The list, which covered traditional marriage requirements from the bride’s family, sparked outrage from the groom, leading to his decision to end the relationship.
The bride price, customary in many Nigerian cultures, included an extensive breakdown of expenses such as:
- Cash gifts to the bride’s family elders
- Items for traditional rites
- Food and drinks for the community celebration
- Cattle and goats as symbolic offerings
The groom was reportedly shocked by the scale of the demands, which he described as unreasonable.
Sources close to the man revealed that he felt the financial burden was excessive, particularly as he had already spent a significant amount on planning the wedding. “He genuinely loves her, but this bride price list crossed the line,” a friend of the groom shared.
The incident has sparked heated debates online, with many criticizing the cultural practice of exorbitant bride price lists. Others, however, defended the bride’s family, arguing that such customs are deeply rooted in tradition and symbolize respect for the family of the bride.
Bride price disputes are not uncommon in Nigeria and have often led to tension between couples and their families. In recent years, some communities have advocated for more moderate practices to prevent financial strain and foster better relationships between families.
The bride and her family have yet to comment on the situation. For now, the canceled wedding underscores ongoing conversations about balancing cultural traditions with modern realities.
